SPEAK TO THEIR HEARTS.

Be positive, speak to people's hearts, the way to handle their weaknesses, what they need to do to get it right. Tell them the way to get out of their mistakes, how to correct their errors, how to abstain from wayward life rather than speaking against them, condemning them. Speak to their hearts rather than speaking about their errors. Speaking about their errors, mistakes, weaknesses can never bring about any change. "Gentle words brings life and health..." Proverbs 15:4 Then, try addressing the issues rather than their persons and you will marvel at the excellent changes you'll witness. Teach, instruct, approach, advice, and avoid condemning, criticising and laying blames and you will excel in building people's character and this will set them apart, special people and you will not be forgotten and this will add to their personality, their glory.